And, a moment of bragging. I am the happy new owner of a Kipling Emma shoulder bag in cream. It was my birthday present from my mom. She knows I love big ol' bags, and this one easily has enough room for shoes and a change of clothes. That means it's a great overnight bag but also good for lugging around my usual water bottle and sweater. It also has three compartments and is lined in a lavendar pattern. So pretty!I'm now eagerly awaiting J's present. It's not like he forgot. For those who don't know our funny rules, arbitrary events don't deserve gifts in our book. We don't shop for each other for birthdays, Christmas, or Valentine's day because those are arbitrary events forced upon people by society. Celebrating for the sake of being like everyone else always seems silly. Non-arbitrary events that are worth celebrating include graduations, weddings, anniversaries, promotions, and other times when you're actually celebrating someone's choices or accomplishments. Presents can also be bought for reason other than "I thought this was awesome and that you would want it." So to make a long story short, we found something awesome that we both want, and it happened right after my birthday, so this year I get a really cool present. I can't wait for it to arrive!
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Those are called Pastelitos. Which is different from Salvadoran Empandas (Which are also yummy too!)
Happy B-day! :)
--Dommy!
Happy birthday, Pei!
my friend's uncle owns that place!
How is "birthday" an arbitrary day? Unless if you were arbitrarily made...but you aren't...?
and sista... you just gave up 3 days of gift receiving...!!
I want more birthdays in a year.
Sandy's card looks pretty pretty.
No one chooses what day you're born, right?
I dunno, I'd rather have my gifts on those times when I decide I really want something than just get a bunch of stuff I didn't really want but that people felt like they had to buy me because it was a specific day. Like my "I really want a gun, but there's no special occassion so we're going to get it and call it a no reason present" was pretty awesome.
Of course, my one friend told me the whole point is to get BOTH. I'm happy either way.
you shouldn't get presents on your b'day becasue you don't even remember that day...really it something that just happened to you. it is dear old mom who should be celebrated and presented with gifts. i am sure she remebers the day in vivid detail.
yb in bay area
amen to that.
maybe some things are universal. dommy gave an example of a latin american version of these cinammony griddle cakes. but since you said you were in k-town, i think you ate ho dduk. in korea i would gobble these up in the winter from street carts. and yes, that molten filling can burn your mouth
birthday is just a set date to celebrate "you". the day/time to celebrate it may be random, but the reason is not arbitrary. everyone should have a day about them.
Mom's should get credit for the birth process. But that's what mother's day is for, and that's what being a good daughter/son everyday is for.
Every day is about me, Junei, EVERY SINGLE DAY. :)
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